There’s a good chance you’ve seen breast bondage in the BDSM scene or in popular fashion. But what is it exactly, and how can you try it?
You’re in the right place if you want to learn how to do breast bondage.
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What is Breast Bondage?
Breast bondage is the act of tying the breasts together, usually with a strap or rope. The goal of breast bondage is not to limit movement, but to frame and highlight the breasts, making them stand out and feel more sensitive to all kinds of touch.
As an art form, rope bondage can range from simple patterns that even a beginner can tie to very complicated ones that take a long time to learn. A lot of the artistic bondage rope shapes come from Kinbaku or Shibari rope bondage, which is a Japanese craft.
Breast Bondage isn’t just for naughty kinksters
You might think that breast rope bondage is a pretty extreme kink that should only be done in the darkest BDSM dungeons at first look. But it doesn’t have to be as kinky as it sounds unless you want it to be! Even bands that look like breast bonds have made it into popular fashion. Vogue even called them an official fall trend for 2020.
If you want to draw attention to your breasts, you can use breast bondage with a rope or a collar to do the same thing. You can make it a little or a lot hotter, though. A lot of the time, breast bondage includes stimulating the breasts and nipples. It can also include other parts of BDSM, mixing pleasure, pain, and power play.
Why Practice Breast Bondage?
The Eye-Catcher
No matter what shape or size your breasts are, they look great on their own, but breast bondage frames them and makes them look like they’re ready to be touched and tickled. When used in this way, it makes the breasts look like sexual items and often goes too far with the idea of breasts by making them stand out or bulge. There’s also something very sexy about the way the round, soft breasts look different from the hard, industrial-looking rope.
Stimulating the Breasts
Some body parts, like the breasts and nipples, are very sensitive and love different kinds of touch. This sensitivity is different for everyone, and some people are even lucky enough to have orgasms in their breasts or nipples. Breast bondage can make you more sensitive by bringing more blood to the breast and keeping it there. This makes every touch feel amazing. If you want to feel more sexually connected to your breasts, binding them may also help. This will help you focus on the feelings you have there.
Power and Submission
When your breasts are bound, you feel like your partner can enjoy them however they want, which adds to the fun of power play. A dom can tie their subs breasts and then use their hands, mouth, or sex toys to pleasure them. They can also make their sub wear clothes that are tied under their clothes. To make the sub feel more submissive, breast bondage is often done with other types of bondage that make it hard for the sub to move, like having their hands tied behind their back.
Breast Bondage Materials
Most of the time, rope is used for breast bondage, but it can be scary for someone who has never done it before, so we’ve got three choices with different levels of spiciness. Lots of different ways to enjoy breast bondage, whether you want to try it out first or go all the way.
Bras with a harness style
For breast and nipple play, bras with open cups and bands that look like harnesses are great for getting used to how it feels to have your breasts out in public. If you’re interested in breast bondage but not ready to go all the way, this is the perfect first step.
Breast bondage is easier to understand with Cottelli’s Wet Look and Lace Open Cup Bra Set. You don’t have to learn how to tie bondage lines. The wrist ties keep you in place and at your partner’s control, while the open cups leave you open for them to play with.
Leather Harnesses
It’s even better with leather collars, which have hard leather straps that are tighter than cloth ones. Full-body collars are also available, as well as straps just for breast bondage. There are a few clips on a harness, so it’s quick and easy to use. This makes it great if you want to try breast bondage but don’t want to learn how to tie a rope or are short on time.
This DOMINIX Deluxe full-body harness has leg straps, flexible leather straps that go around your breasts, and o-rings that let you connect it to your favorite shackles. This very hot harness draws attention to your breasts and makes them the star of the show, ready to be sexily praised.
Bondage Rope
Breast bondage has been done for a long time with bondage rope. It’s used to make beautiful rope, twist, and knot designs that look great on the body and bring out your natural shape. Bondage rope can be made from natural fibers like hemp, cotton, or jute, or man-made fibers like nylon.
What kind of rope should I use for breast bonding?
There are many things to consider when picking out rope, such as price, how smooth or rough you want it to be, and what you plan to use it for. You might want to choose a soft, smooth rope because the skin around your breasts is often very sensitive. If this is your first time buying ropes and you’re not sure which one to choose, it’s best to stick to ones that are made for bondage.
Size of the rope
It is important that the rope is at least 5 mm wide so that it doesn’t cut your skin. Aside from that, the way you tie it will also affect the width you pick. If you put a stronger rope under your breasts, it will prop them up and give them more lift.
The Soft Bondage Rope from Bondage Boutique is a great choice for both new and experienced rope bondage users. The braided cotton is soft but strong, and it stays in place well. To get the best look for your breast bondage play, pick between red and black.
How to Tie Breast Bondage
On YouTube, you can find a huge number of great movies that show you how to do breast bondage. The Duchy has a lot of information about rope bondage. It focuses on safety and sharing information without having pornographic pictures like many other sites. They also have a great YouTube page where they show you step-by-step how to do different kinds of bondage.
If you want to start breast rope bondage, here are some movies from Zed Ropework, Lazarus Redmayne (from the TheDuchy), and Anatomie Studio that are great for the style:
Rope Bondage Tutorial: Simple Chest Harness
Bikini Harness v2 – TheDuchy ®
Figure of 8 Chest Harness
Breast Bondage Play
Once you know how to tie up your partner’s breasts, you’ll definitely want to try some breast and nipple play because they look so good! If you’re the one doing the controlling, it can be very exciting for the person you’re controlling.
Everyone reacts to breast and nipple play in their own unique way. Some people don’t like it at all, while others can come just from nip stimulation. If you’re trying something new, make sure to let your partner know.
Before you tie up your partner, here are some different ways to make their breasts feel good. Keep in mind that breast bondage can make the feelings stronger, so your partner may react more strongly than normal. Always talk to your partner ahead of time about what kinds of touch and pleasure they are okay with, and make sure they keep their consent.
Massage
A breast massage is a great way to bring more blood to the breasts and wake up all the nerve ends, which will make your partner want more. This can also mean rubbing the nipple and the area around it, gradually making the pressure stronger.
Oral Stimulation
It can feel great to stimulate your partner’s breasts and nipples with your mouth, just like oral sex. If you want to get more blood flowing to your partner’s nipples, try flicking your tongue and biting or kissing them gently.
Floggers
Some people are scared of floggers, especially if they don’t like being hurt, but they work just as well when used gently. You can either slowly drag the flogger across your partner’s breast, letting them feel the tingle of cold leather on their soft skin, or you can give them a few light whips to make it stronger.
The Slap and Tickle Rubber Flogger from Bondage Boutique is a great first flogger because the rubber is softer than leather. They also make a great fake leather flogger if you want something a little sexier.
Vibrator
If you want to stimulate your partner’s nipples with a regular vibrator, like a bullet vibrator, move the vibrator around the outside of the nipple. Clitoral suction vibrators are also great for stimulating the nipple because they make it feel like someone is sucking on it.
The portable bullet vibrator from Mantric has a flat, angled tip that lets you change the vibrations between tiny and broad stimulation. This makes it great for teasing the nips. It’s also waterproof and made of soft rubber!
Nipple Clamps and Nipple Suckers
Breast bondage and nipple clamps go well together. The clamps make it stronger by making the feeling in the nipples stronger. Additionally, they look very seductive when put next to the rough rope. If you like nipple clamps, nipple suckers are a great way to make your hands more sensitive.
The nipple clamps from Bondage Boutique are stylish, simple, and can be adjusted to give you just the right amount of pinch.
Check out this review of all the best nipple clamps for more choices. It includes nipple suckers, advanced clamps, and a gag-clamp mix!
Temperature Play
You can touch your partner’s breasts with both warm and cold objects. Give your partner a tingling shock with an ice cube or let them enjoy the warm wax that drips from a massage candle. It’s also fun to play with temperature because glass or stainless steel sex toys are easy to heat up or cool down.
The massage candles from Earthly Body are good for your skin, come in three tempting smells, and you can even eat them. Pour warm wax over your partner’s breast and rub or lick them to tease them.
Breast Bondage Safety
That being said, safety is very important with any kind of bondage or sexual action for that matter. Trust and respect should always be at the heart of bondage and BDSM in general. For safe breast bondage, here are some tips:
- It is important for BDSM that everything is safe, normal, and agreed upon. You shouldn’t do anything physical unless all of your partners meet these conditions.
- Set clear limits with your partner ahead of time. Talk about what activities (like amount of pain or excitement) you both want to do and what activities are off limits.
- Always keep in mind that permission is ongoing and can change. Even if your partner decided to do something, that doesn’t mean they will enjoy it or want to do it right now.
- Have a safeword that makes it clear that you want to stop the action right away. A word that is simple to say and remember is best. It should also not get mixed up in the play. Fruits and things around the house are good options. If you have a gag on, use a safe signal instead.
- Medical tools should always be on hand in case you need to cut your partner off the rope quickly.
- The rope shouldn’t be tied too tight. Your partner needs to be able to breathe, and you don’t want to stop their blood flow. A finger or two should be able to fit between the rope and their body. As the rope gets tighter, your partner should stay in the rope for less time.
- To keep it from cutting into the skin, the rope needs to be at least 5 mm thick. If you see skin damage, take off the rope, clean the skin, and let it heal. Watch out that it doesn’t get sick.
- Your breasts shouldn’t feel cold or tingly, and they shouldn’t turn blue or purple. This means that the rope is too tight and is stopping the blood flow. Take off the rope if this starts to happen.
Have you ever tried breast bondage or just thought about it? Please tell me about your adventures in the comments.